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Eighteen Months

Wednesday, September 1st, 2010

Has it really been a year and a half since our little pumpkin blessed our world? Time has flown by so quickly and we still feel so blessed to have a child in our lives to keep us laughing, playing, and enjoying our lives from a child’s point of view.

At 18 months old, Carter is still wearing size 18 month clothing and he’s in a toddler size 6 shoe. He has 13 teeth as of right now (one of them freshly chipped, thanks to me) and gets hair cuts by yours truly on a regular basis (probably every three weeks). I won’t have his official weight and height until after his appointment on Friday, but here are some of Carter’s habits and traits at this stage in his life –

* When playing with his toys that play songs and make noise, he’ll push the appropriate button over and over again (as if he’s flipping through stations) until the song he likes best starts playing. He’ll then turn around and look to us to sing the song. When the song is over, he does the whole routine over again.

* He can successfully complete a shapes puzzle, but is still working to understand the farm animal one.

* Carter will “count” for various reasons. A couple of examples, when he’s reading his counting book with us or when he’s preparing to go down a slide. His counting sounds something like “aahh uuhh EEEEE”. I was informed yesterday that he’s started to do this when playing hide and seek with his friend Griffin at daycare.

* When we get out his alphabet stacking blocks, I usually sing the ABCs to him while we stack them, but last night when I just got the blocks out and then starting talking to Matt, Carter started singing the song himself. Of course he doesn’t know the actual letters, but he was singing the tune with an ‘ah’ or an ‘ee’ or an ‘uh’ for each letter. He also will attempt to “spell” his name in the same way.

* Our little man loves to color and draw. He spends time on his doodle pad almost every night and jumps at the chance to get his hands on crayons or color wonder markers.

* Mr. Carter enjoys “reading” through his books. He’ll sit in front of his little bookcase with his book of choice and sign the animals he recognizes. Once he’s done with a book, he’ll reach up and grab another to read through.

* He hates having his teeth brushed and isn’t very good at picking up his toys.

* When we have been in the apartment for a little too long, Carter will retrieve our flip flops for us and place them on our feet.

* He still sleeps with Mr. Froggie (hasn’t slept a night without him since he was probably 3 weeks old) and will tell us “bye bye” as we leave his room at bedtime.

* Carter can name everyone in his household – Dada, Mama, and Aaaeeee!! When I pick him up from daycare, he’ll start saying something to me, stop in mid-sentence and say “Ma?” just to make sure he has my full attention. He uses this attention getting technique any time he wants to make sure I’m listening. He’ll repeat himself, “Ma?” – silence – “Ma?” – silence- “Ma?” until I respond to him and he knows I’m listening.

* While our little man has his head shaking down to a science and is quick to remind us he knows exactly what the word ‘no’ means, the poor guy still can’t nod his head.

* Just in the last few weeks, Carter has taken more interest in dancing. While watching Dora or Yo Gabba Gabba, he’ll stand up and start dancing when a familiar song is used. He mainly just swings his arms around, but it’s cute to me, so I usually dance with him.

It’s hard for me to believe that in only six more months he’ll be two years old. I can only imagine what he’ll learn between now and then. He’s learning so quickly these days!!

Nobody’s Perfect

Sunday, August 29th, 2010

When Carter turned a year old, I felt pretty good about myself keeping a baby human alive (and well) for that long. A couple of months later when he burned his finger on my hair straightener under my watch, I figured every parent is given a chance to slip up at least once. About a month ago when he ingested Shout while I tended to packing other items for our weekend away, I reminded myself that I need to think my actions through a little bit better. But this morning when Carter chipped his tooth on a bouncy zebra at the park (once again, under my watch), it got me thinking that maybe I’m just not good at this parenting thing.

Yup, that’s right, Carter’s smile is no longer perfect, and I have nobody to blame but myself. Each time he giggles, smiles, or even cries, I’m reminded of how horrible I felt (and still feel) when his head hit that zebra and chips of tooth were left on his lower lip. I figure I’ll feel bad for the next five years until he loses the tooth, but the incident really got me thinking about whether or not we should have another child. I mean, if child protective services were to read this blog, I’m sure they’d be knocking at my door to check in on the little guy on a regular basis, and if I can’t even keep track of one child, how will I ever keep a watchful eye over two?!?

Matt read up on tooth chips in toddlers and he says we’ll need to call the doctor or dentist tomorrow, but there’s a good chance that there isn’t any damage to the permanent tooth or nerves since the chip doesn’t bother Carter at all (he didn’t shed even one tear over the incident) and there hasn’t been any blood. It still hasn’t made me feel better though. I feel just awful about the event.

On a more positive note, we had a nice relaxing weekend. Yesterday morning we went to the farmer’s market and then out to the house to check the electrical work (plumbing is finished now and inspection has been done). Then in the afternoon we got our appliances ordered for the house and found the mirrors we want to put in our master bathroom. This morning I went for a long walk/jog so I could take Carter to the park (which totally backfired), and then we spent the day at the apartment doing laundry, cleaning, and relaxing so we’ll be ready for the work week tomorrow. Matt’s Steelers are playing the Broncos tonight in a preseason game, so Matt is happy. I’m hoping that a good night’s rest will help me to feel a little less guilty about the tooth. I need to keep reminding myself that nobody is perfect, but I can’t help but feel bad that my imperfections are affecting Carter in terrible ways.

Maybe Monday will be a better day…

Word Extravaganza

Friday, August 27th, 2010

As Carter approaches his 18-month milestone (September 1st), his use of words is progressing every single day.  I think it’s each evening that we hear a new word out of his little mouth, so I started making a list of the words he can sign as well as the words he can say.  I realize this list doesn’t mean my child is a genius, but there is plenty of pride in my heart these days as I am able to communicate with our little man. Well, maybe I don’t understand everything he says, but I now have a topic for when he asks me an impossible to understand question followed by a word he knows. For example, “Beblubadaaaaa Dor?” Translates to “Blah, blah, Dora?” Anyway, here is the list…

Signs he knows –
More
All Done
Drink
Milk
Monkey (says oo-oo-oo)
Chicken (tries to say bawk-bawk-bawk)
Fish (puckers his lips to make a kissing sound)
Cow (says ooooo)
Sheep (says ba!)
Cat (says mea-mea)
Pig
Dog (pants)
Bird (says be-be-be – for peep-peep-peep)
Duck (says cack-cack-cack)
Elephant
Frog
Butterfly
Ball
Book
Flower
Banana
Apple
Hat
Bowl
Bath
Shoes
Airplane
Hungry
Help
Please
Thank you
Light
Toothbrush (this one is new this week)

Words he says –
Mama
Dada
Ace (EEEeeeee)
Baby (bebe)
Ball (bah)
Book (bu) – does the sign with this too
Cracker (cacuh)
Bath (ba) – does the sign with this too
Bye bye
Will gobble when shown a turkey picture (kaba-kaba-kaba)
Bear (bee)
Yellow (ello)
Gone (Ga) – uses this to tell me when his food or juice is all gone
Boat (bow)
No, no, no – will shake his finger when he says it.
Rock (gock)
Deer (dee)
Truck (cuck)
Bubble
Star
Choo Choo (doo doo) – will say this when he sees a train
Dude – courtesy of our daycare ladies
Dora – (Dor)
Backpack (ba pa)
Map(bap)