Archive for September, 2009

Blog Avoidance

Wednesday, September 30th, 2009

I’d like to say we’ve been so busy these days that I just haven’t had time to blog, but the only thing we’ve really been busy with is the every day activities of work and home in addition to a few of our own personal interests. So, I guess that means I’ve been avoiding blogging out of pure laziness and avoidance of extra time on the computer. Wait, I can’t really say I’ve been avoiding the computer because over the last few weeks I’ve gained an addiction to Craig’s List, which means that I’m checking the stupid website every day, sometimes three to four times a day. I don’t even know why I scroll through the postings of items so frequently…which is why I can only label this habit as an addiction. Sure, I’ve purchased a few things – an outdoor swing and gently used toys for Carter and a couple of upgrades for our computer room (a desk and flat panel monitor) – but for the most part I don’t actually need or even want anything on the site.

Thanks to my addiction though (I found a great steel desk for $5), I’ve decided that it’s time to complete the last room in the house that needs a “makeover” – the computer room **insert scary sound effect here**. Currently, our computer room (aka – the 3rd bedroom) is a total pig sty. It is like our dumping grounds, and within the last few weeks I’ve really gotten lazy about keeping it even semi organized, so it’s gone completely into the toilet (not literally, but you know what I mean). We have a little path into the room, and that path is surrounded by all of the things we can’t find a place for in other parts of our home. The desk is now piled with I think three stacks of papers that need to be filed, and the treadmill that hasn’t been used in over a year is just an eye sore. Honestly, I think every house has one of these rooms or spaces…or at least every house that is home to a child. But that’s no excuse for me…I’m determined to get it cleaned up and looking decent! So, this weekend’s projects are to get the new desk painted, do some new carpet research, and hopefully throw everything out that we don’t plan to keep. Doesn’t sound like much, but honestly, it’s hard to do too much when we have a babe to watch as well.

Our weekends have really been laid back lately, which feels great. We’ve spent some time with neighbors, and family has visited here and there, but for the most part we’ve had a lot of time to ourselves. Matt has gone golfing with friends a few times, I’ve gotten to spend quality time with Carter, and on Sunday afternoons we try to relax together and watch the Packers and Steelers games. It’s been the perfect balance of activities for me, so I’m feeling very relaxed these days. Carter and I have even gotten a few walks in. He really loves being outside. It’s the best way to calm him down if he’s fussy. He loves watching Ace & Sassy run around in the yard, but also likes just riding in the stroller and taking in all of the neighborhood activities…mostly the kids that are playing in their front yards. Hopefully the weather stays nice for a few more weeks so he can continue to enjoy it!

stroller

A couple of weeks ago, Carter experienced the zoo for the first time. Our life insurance company hosted a night at the Lincoln Children’s Zoo, so we thought it would be the perfect opportunity to introduce Carter to the world of watching animals in cages (not to mention get out of the house for an evening). At first, I don’t think he got the point of the zoo as he took absolutely no interest in watching the reindeer. But then we got to the monkeys and his eyes lit up! He watched the monkeys swinging from branch to branch, and was in complete awe. The bats were next, and although they weren’t as active (and were harder to see), he was able to follow them as they flew across their concrete cell. I think Matt was embarrassed as I was squatting next to the stroller, explaining things to Carter. I was making monkey noises, telling him that bats hang upside down, and when we got to the camels, I explained that they store water in their humps (which then made me wonder if that was true, or if it’s just something I had dreamt up on my own as a kid – turns out they don’t actually store water in their humps, in case you were wondering). Anyway, Carter also got to hear a cheetah growl, and compared his foot size with a baboon’s. It was a fun time for all of us. :)

zoo1

zoo2

foot compare

On the 18th, we brought Carter home from daycare and instead of putting him on a blanket to roll around and play, we just let him play on the carpet (a first for us). It wasn’t 10 minutes later when the little bugger was scooting around using both his arms to pull and legs to push him around. Prior to that night Carter would only move backward. And ever since that night, we’ve had to keep a much closer eye on him. As far as my crawling prediction goes, I think he has a couple more weeks. He will still prop himself up on all fours quite frequently, but always plops back down to the belly without any forward motion. Matt did install the “tot-locks” in the kitchen for the cupboards which hold anything that would harm him, so whenever he does decide to crawl, we’re prepared!!

Carter’s vocalization has dropped a little, even though he never talked a heck of a lot. He seems too busy focusing on his toys to be thinking about talking. Amanda, our daycare provider, said that one day he sat for 25 minutes just staring at the alphabet she has up on the wall. I’m sure it’s only a matter of time before he’s blabbing like mommy and daddy though. He did finally start saying ‘dadadada’ on our way home from the zoo (yay!) and whenever he gets hungry, we still hear ‘mamama’. He’s eating a lot more solid foods these days, and is getting really close to cutting down to 4 bottles of mama’s milk a day instead of the 5 he’s been drinking up until now. I also bought him a little “mesh feeder” that I can put fresh fruits and soft veggies into for him to chew on. It forces him to mash the food himself, and allows him to get fresh food instead of jarred all of the time. We tried it for the first time last night with a fresh peach, and he absolutely loved it!! He wasn’t a big fan of peaches from the jar, but after taking one whiff of the jarred variety, I didn’t imagine he’d like them too much. The fresh peach was a much better experience for him.

The other exciting event in Carter’s life (okay, it’s really just exciting for me and Matt), is that we’ve purchased the larger car seats for our vehicles, so no more lugging our tiny tot around in an infant carrier! At first, Carter was a little confused by it, but now I think he likes it as he can see a lot more from his propped up position. And I’m enjoying it as well. It’s so much easier to carry just him than to have an awkward carrier. Not to mention, he hated being in the carrier, so I feel better knowing he’s a little happier. I packed up the carrier, the infant swing we don’t use anymore, the bouncy seat, boppy, and a few other items/toys Carter doesn’t use anymore and hauled them out to our storage shed. All the while, I was in complete amazement that all of these things only lasted us six and a half months. Hopefully we’ll be fortunate to have another child in the future so we can use them all again, but I can’t believe how quickly he out-grew everything (even though everyone told me I’d be surprised by it). It’s probably only a matter of another few months before I’ll have to go through his things again and move more items to storage. Just crazy!

I can’t believe that tomorrow will be October and Carter will be seven months old…where did September go?!?

A Lazy Week

Thursday, September 10th, 2009

It’s finally here again. Our television has been graced with the green undertones lined by white stripes and speckled with random colors. Tonight it’s gold, black, blue, and white as the Steelers match up with the Titans. Carter was in bed by 7:00 and I’ve been watching football since 7:30. It feels great…I’ve missed this.

first husker day

This week is officially a lazy week for not only me, but also for Matt. Last week we worked really hard to get some home projects finished up and to prepare for a cornhole tournament that we host every year. The weekend started out with inviting my parents, my sister Natalie, her husband Jake, and our niece Mercedes to our place for the Husker game on Saturday evening. Sunday morning we had brunch with my Mom’s side of the family, and then we returned home to finish getting ready for the cornhole tournament. We had a great turnout for the tournament (around 30 people), but I think Matt rigged it this year. He managed to be paired up with his brother, Jamee, both of which are awesome at cornhole. We try to mix things up by having everyone draw a number from a bowl, and whoever has matching numbers are partners. So I’m truly stumped as to how they were paired up. The truth of the matter is that we have a lot of great cornhole players show up each year, so if a couple of them pair up it’s easy for them to dominate the tourney. In any case, Matt and Jamee won the tournament. Congratulations guys!

On top of our home upgrades, the cornhole tournament, and being blessed with a visit from Natalie, Jake, and Mercedes, we’ve finally decided it’s time to buy a new computer for me. My nearly nine year old computer decided to kick the bucket this weekend after a few breaker overloads (from all of the roasters and such we had plugged in for the tourney). Fortunately, we were able to save all of the documents and such on the hard drive, but the computer is officially crap. So, Matt was so sweet to build a new laptop and get it ordered today so that I’ll have a computer that will be comfortable for all of my needs…even working from home, should the need arise. I’m kind of looking forward to it. He even ordered it in lime green. :)

Carter has been becoming much more vocal these days, attempting to come up with something new to say. He’s pretty consistent with “mamamama”, but as of this morning has added “bababababa”, and he can’t stop saying it. He even talked through eating this evening. He’s also getting up on his knees and rocking back and forth, so we think we only have a short amount of time before he gets on the move via crawling instead of rolling.

He had his 6 month appointment on Wednesday, and is measuring up nicely. He’s in the 25th-50th percentile for both his head and length measurements at 17 inches and 26 inches, respectfully. And his weight is in the 50th-75th percentile with 18 pounds, 4.5 ounces. So, he’s growing nicely…we can’t complain! He’s still in his 6 month clothes too, which is good because I don’t have many summer selections in his 6-9 month clothes. The doctor also said we can add fruits now, and that solids are gaining more importance over breast milk, so in the next week I plan to add a fruit or two, and also increase his solids to three times a day instead of just two. Carter also got his first bath in the “big tub” tonight. I was getting tired of holding him up while he would reach over for his toys and get his face too close to the water, so I got him a bath chair in hopes it would make it an easier task. It’s paid off already. Bath time was a little less stressful for me, and he really enjoyed having extra toys in his bath to splash around and watch float. It was a win-win situation and I don’t think I’ll dread bath time so much now.

big boy bath

Turning into a Sap

Tuesday, September 1st, 2009

Six months ago today we welcomed our little “cutie patootie” into this world. And while this milestone doesn’t seem monumental to me, it has definitely gotten me to think about where we were 6 months and a day ago (sans baby) and how much things have changed since the wonderful day we were blessed with Carter.

While we’ve easily adjusted to the many normal parenting things such as a lack of sleep, toys lying around the house at all times, modifying our schedule to Carter’s, and cleaning up puke and poop when necessary, there are certain things that have occurred or changed in the last six months that I didn’t expect. My first unexpected memorable moment with Carter was in the hospital when they would lie him on my chest for “skin-to-skin” so they called it. This was meant to help him increase his body temperature, but I just loved it because of how close I felt to him when they’d have me do it. I’ll never forget the short (but deep for him) and tiny breaths he would take while he was sleeping on me. It helped me to realize that life really is precious, newborns are really tiny, and Matt and I are truly blessed to have this new babe in our lives.

After that, there were a long list of unexpected moments and changes…too many to list, and probably some I’ve forgotten already (thanks to the baby-brain or momnesia, as some call it). For instance, I totally didn’t expect to become so emotional in just the first six months. I don’t want this to sound like I’ve cried a lot, but it’s been a long time since I’ve cried as frequently as I have in the last six months. First came tears of frustration and exhaustion for a few months as I tried to find balance between work, home, and a demanding baby. Tears of fear and sorrow when he isn’t feeling well or has a fever. I even cry during movies with child based story lines now because I can officially relate to the highs and lows of being a parent. But the best and most frequent tears of all are the tears of joy. The ones I experienced after his first smile, when he falls asleep in my arms, and oddly enough, while watching him play, explore, giggle, and interact. Because those are the moments when I know I must be doing something right. Those are the times I’m reminded that he’s happy, healthy, and all of his needs are being met. And I thank the Lord that we’ve been blessed with the opportunity to provide everything he needs.

I also didn’t expect one little babe to create so much laundry!! I didn’t expect him to sleep so much (only awake for two to four hours each day in the beginning). I didn’t expect pumping to be so easy for me…and breastfeeding to be so hard. Would have never guessed clipping finger and toe nails would be such a challenge, or that I’d actually shop at garage sales for his clothes. I didn’t expect to feel so much closer to God than I did before, and I definitely didn’t expect to find a new inner strength to express how I feel about things in life (mainly at work). Never the less, here I am, six months past Carter’s birth, and I feel like I’m evolving not only as a mother, but also as an individual. My personality is becoming more defined than ever with who I need to be for Carter, and who I want to be as a person.

I’d have to say though, that the most unexpected “change” I’ve gone through is feeling closer to and more in love with Matt than ever. Each time I look at Carter, I’m reminded of my love for Matt, and how amazing it is to know that our love brought this wonderful little one into this world. And when I watch Matt and Carter interacting, it brings tears of joy to my eyes (see, even more crying) because I know that Carter has a father who will be there for him whenever he needs him. And thinking about that makes me fall in love with Matt all over again.

So, overall, the last six months have been a little overwhelming and extremely busy, but the changes we’ve gone through as individuals and as a family are truly amazing. And all of it is due to this one little boy…our peanut, sunshine, sweetie pie, big guy, buddy, stud muffin, Mr. Carter. I wouldn’t trade him for the world – not yet anyway!